MX Dave Donating Members 545 Member For: 13y 10m 17d Gender: Male Posted 17/09/12 04:14 AM Share Posted 17/09/12 04:14 AM Haven't had more than 4hours of chit sleep every night since I split with the mrs 10 months ago. Messes you up good, can certainly relate! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuckSqueezeBangBlow ʎǝʞuoɯ ɹoıuǝs Donating Members 1,808 Member For: 16y 2m 6d Gender: Male Posted 17/09/12 04:24 AM Share Posted 17/09/12 04:24 AM yeah it grinds you down. Its been just over 4 years for me, but with a stretch of about 4 months in the middle somewhere where it was acceptable. Julian, how do you cope? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impellor Member 835 Member For: 14y 7m 2d Gender: Not Telling Posted 17/09/12 10:49 PM Share Posted 17/09/12 10:49 PM Haven't had more than 4hours of chit sleep every night since I split with the mrs 10 months ago.Messes you up good, can certainly relate!Relationship breakdown is often one of the most traumatic experiences that one encounters. And what you are experiencing is very normal. However, over time the pain will lessen.Unfortunately for us men, we are socialised through a process of social construction to be at fault when this occurs. As men we like to think that we can fix all, but in reality we can't control everything in our lives. Because at the end of the day it takes two to make things work, as it also takes two for them to fail. Learn from the experience, as ultimately you will be better for it. Once you understand this, and stop blaming yourself, you will sleep like a baby. As I said it takes two, too tango !!!Cheers 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Never had any say Panda I <3 Floods Silver Donating Members 11,198 Member For: 13y 6m 21d Gender: Male Location: South West QLD Posted 17/09/12 11:00 PM Share Posted 17/09/12 11:00 PM ... As I said it takes two, too tango !!!I always use that line whenever I hear girls complaining about getting knocked up.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JETURBO ...JD TUNING ADELAIDE... Gold Donating Members 23,708 Member For: 16y 8m 22d Gender: Male Location: Adelaide Posted 17/09/12 11:47 PM Share Posted 17/09/12 11:47 PM Cheers 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adie Not pregnant Donating Members 2,238 Member For: 13y 2m 14d Gender: Female Location: Melbourne Posted 17/09/12 11:56 PM Share Posted 17/09/12 11:56 PM Imprellor, I did everything I could to keep my relationship together, but like you said, it takes two. And I keep blaming myself, despite being unable to work out what the hell I did wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Jeturbo Bob the Freaking Builder Donating Members 10,813 Member For: 15y 5m 9d Gender: Female Location: SA Posted 18/09/12 12:08 AM Share Posted 18/09/12 12:08 AM at the end of the day.... sometimes there are assholes in the world..but if someone doesn't love u as much as you love them then they're not right for you... it's about finding someone who loves you as much as you love them... unfortunately sometimes people are either dishonnest or just hurtful and people get hurt... relationships are tough but it's all part of life... don't blame yourself adie... your clearly an awesome girl and you will find someone sh*t loads better who will treat you like a princess ..hey ... today I'm getting married to the love of my life... just happens that he's also a little retarded... love u huni... lol 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ciaran Thooperrrrrrr Donating Members 2,768 Member For: 13y 7m 20d Gender: Male Location: NOR, Western Australia Posted 18/09/12 12:50 AM Share Posted 18/09/12 12:50 AM pics of you in wedding dress Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Never had any say Panda I <3 Floods Silver Donating Members 11,198 Member For: 13y 6m 21d Gender: Male Location: South West QLD Posted 18/09/12 01:22 AM Share Posted 18/09/12 01:22 AM Wedding today?I could have made a cake!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adie Not pregnant Donating Members 2,238 Member For: 13y 2m 14d Gender: Female Location: Melbourne Posted 18/09/12 01:28 AM Share Posted 18/09/12 01:28 AM Serious fluffy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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