Mrs Jeturbo Bob the Freaking Builder Donating Members 10,813 Member For: 15y 4m 24d Gender: Female Location: SA Posted 10/02/19 05:45 AM Share Posted 10/02/19 05:45 AM (edited) Can’t... my dad worked for 50 years 50+ hours a week to look after us all... and I’m damn sure I’ll make sure our FA invests well and there’s loads left in the long run for our kids... I’m playing the long game, plus the house another property sitting there ready to make me money one day. Im conflicted coz I love her as my mum, but I also dislike her immensely as a human being, my dad would be ashamed of the person she’s become. But I always said I’d look after either of my parents and I will. No matter how damn awful she is to me. Edited 10/02/19 05:45 AM by Miss Cornwall 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilk Is on holiday from communism Member 1,282 Member For: 6y 1m 4d Gender: Female Location: Victoria Posted 10/02/19 05:52 AM Share Posted 10/02/19 05:52 AM Well I don't like my family cause my old man never tought me how to be a man, nothing was good enough. And if I did ask for help it was always no. So fark him. Mum is a self entitled twat. Sister is a full time professional sponge. So easy for me to disown them. I've lost nothing. I'm a self made man. Just took me longer than everyone else haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Puffwagon Puff Gold Donating Members 16,099 Member For: 10y 8d Gender: Male Location: South Australia Posted 10/02/19 06:12 AM Share Posted 10/02/19 06:12 AM 17 minutes ago, Miss Cornwall said: Consider yourself lucky.... While it's a nice thing for her to offer help us, I'm far from lucky when it comes to my family. We're all good now with me, the missus and kids, but before them life was quite different. It sounds like you guys aren't having the greatest time right now, but you'll get through it hey. I'm sure you already have it planned to completion etc. Just gotta suck it up for a while and then it'll be behind you. What else made me feel food today? I pulled a fat smokey front wheel skid on the way to the pub! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OZYWALKER XR50T Gold Donating Members 2,795 Member For: 11y 9m 5d Gender: Male Location: Western Sydney Posted 10/02/19 09:45 AM Share Posted 10/02/19 09:45 AM T56 magnum and option 5 (organic and ceramic twin plate)I <3 Bananasing amazing.Don't bother with this stock box garbage.Magnum cos size matters 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bloodycrashboy Feeling the Love :-) Bronze Donating Members 4,421 Member For: 11y 10m 6d Gender: Male Location: Not in Cairns anymore Posted 10/02/19 10:17 AM Share Posted 10/02/19 10:17 AM (edited) 4 hours ago, I love kittens said: So easy for me to disown them. I've lost nothing. I was brought up in a "normal" home with a mum and a dad looking back, they loved me and cared for me. I turned into a complete asshole at about the age of 15 ran away from home, not before telling my parents that I thought they were the assholes I did return a few weeks later, cos me mates mum got me on the phone with them She was probably sick of me bludging off of her things weren't the same after that cos I got into drugs ended up leaving home at 17 left the country at 21 ok, ok, I'm a Kiwi, there I said it! (explains alot doesn't it) I am an Australian citizen though one way ticket to Brisvegas then onto the Gold Coast there I met Mrs BCB I was still an asshat, just a handsome one one of the many reasons I never wanted kids was that I didn't want a mini me cos "me" was a self centered drug taking asshole with no respect for pretty much anyone else I never kept much contact with my folks after I left home at 17 over the years it's been Mrs BCB's encouragement that has got me back talking with them now we talk via google hangouts or skype every few months they are both in their eighty's, so I imagine I will be going back to Un Zud for some funerals in the not to distant future "The living years" by Mike and the Mechanics sometimes brings a few tears to my eyes and I'm sure I will cry at their funerals but cos I was such a self centered twat for so long, and I now live 4000 klm away, our relationship can never be any different Edited 10/02/19 10:23 AM by bloodycrashboy 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bloodycrashboy Feeling the Love :-) Bronze Donating Members 4,421 Member For: 11y 10m 6d Gender: Male Location: Not in Cairns anymore Posted 10/02/19 10:30 AM Share Posted 10/02/19 10:30 AM sorry guys, that probably shouldn't have been in the WMYFGT thread, just needed to get it off my chest 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k31th less WHY; more WOT Site Developer 29,199 Member For: 16y 9m 27d Gender: Male Location: Melbourne Posted 10/02/19 10:32 AM Share Posted 10/02/19 10:32 AM it's fine happy to hear you out and good to get that stuff out in the open. No harm done, when it comes to us. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Jeturbo Bob the Freaking Builder Donating Members 10,813 Member For: 15y 4m 24d Gender: Female Location: SA Posted 10/02/19 10:32 AM Share Posted 10/02/19 10:32 AM wow Bcb.... what a journey..... but at the end of the day I will say, if u had kids, doesn’t mean they will make the same mistakes you did as a kid and even so, sounds like you’re a decent bloke in a happy relationship with a home full of love and to be honest that’s all a child needs. I understand and what you’re saying though, my parents adopted me and loved me, if anything over loved me. I think that’s why it’s so hard now, my mum is all about the children and as soon as they are older she loses her interest and moves on. Now im an adult she doesn’t love me or behave like a mother anymore, but a baby comes along and she’s all mush and love. Lofes a funny thing. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bloodycrashboy Feeling the Love :-) Bronze Donating Members 4,421 Member For: 11y 10m 6d Gender: Male Location: Not in Cairns anymore Posted 10/02/19 10:43 AM Share Posted 10/02/19 10:43 AM hey @skidxr6t , now you know why I have your comment in my sig I've always wanted to be an Aussie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilk Is on holiday from communism Member 1,282 Member For: 6y 1m 4d Gender: Female Location: Victoria Posted 10/02/19 11:39 AM Share Posted 10/02/19 11:39 AM See, you need hate to bring out the good. My hate got your feelings out and now you feel better. I'm blessed with a curse 💩❤ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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