MattyP MattyP Cruise Control 6,317 Member For: 12y 7m 22d Gender: Male Location: Central Coast Posted 14/04/14 12:22 PM Share Posted 14/04/14 12:22 PM Thanks for the support fellas But no I'm not ok I can't even keep it together to drive, I'm not focused at all, I'm just lost 5 days have felt like an eternity, I don't know what to do or whom to turn to. It just feels like I'm not here anymore, when in all honesty I'm really not I know venting here seems in appropriate but I need to get my thoughts out of my head 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BenDoCo I'm getten too old for this s**t Bronze Donating Members 4,509 Member For: 11y 8m 19d Gender: Male Location: A big bridge over a river in South Australia Posted 14/04/14 12:32 PM Share Posted 14/04/14 12:32 PM If writing stuff in this thread helps then keep writing. A lot of us have been where you are atm and the old idea of keeping problems to yourself is absolutely bullshyte.Find someone, anyone to talk too and as I said, vent your anger here.&Hang in there...... 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discostig Manual mode ________________________ All day, erryday Donating Members 13,798 Member For: 17y 1m 2d Gender: Male Location: Probably above atmospheric pressure Posted 14/04/14 01:26 PM Share Posted 14/04/14 01:26 PM It's entirely appropriate mate. It's what the thread is for, be it little problems or major ones. Those of us who have gone/are going through dark times will understand most of all, and everyone is here to help each other, not just with cars! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Stripes. All stock bar the k&n panel filter Silver Donating Members 8,061 Member For: 12y 9m 13d Gender: Male Location: Perth Posted 14/04/14 03:06 PM Share Posted 14/04/14 03:06 PM Vent away mate! That's one of the things I like about this forum, it actually feels like a community of people who actually give a shìt! We're all here to help you in whatever way we can, even if just to allow you an avenue to gather and express your thoughts and feelings Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pixy Angel Expert Donating Members 9,132 Member For: 19y 9m 29d Gender: Male Location: North Jamberoo, NSW Posted 14/04/14 09:51 PM Share Posted 14/04/14 09:51 PM Thanks for the support fellasBut no I'm not okI can't even keep it together to drive, I'm not focused at all, I'm just lost 5 days have felt like an eternity, I don't know what to do or whom to turn to. It just feels like I'm not here anymore, when in all honesty I'm really notI know venting here seems in appropriate but I need to get my thoughts out of my headHey Matty keep you chin up mate. As much as its hurting inside give it some time and take your time to.At anytime you need to talk we're all here mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AzMahoony Hench, but no longer shredded or tanned. Member 3,343 Member For: 17y 8m 28d Gender: Male Location: Canning Vale, W.A Posted 14/04/14 09:59 PM Share Posted 14/04/14 09:59 PM I feel sorta awkward now for wantin to rant about miniscule things :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barnz Member 3,047 Member For: 11y 1m 6d Gender: Male Location: Brisbane Posted 14/04/14 11:58 PM Share Posted 14/04/14 11:58 PM Its really great to see some support and compassion going around here, I've only been a member for 6months and thought you were all a good bunch of lads but you have all shown your true colours and its quite humbling tbh. Blokes dont talk enough and find it hard to do so kudos for having the guts voice your feelings Matty. Everybody is spot on, things have a funny way of working themselves out you just need to hang tough. The missus and I split up for a couple of months about 5 years ago when I was your age(yeah I checked your profile...) and now were married and have a 4 month old son. Things will work out if they are meant to mate. The best thing you can do is try and clear your mind a bit cause it sounds like its just swimming. Try to devote your mental energy to moving forward rather than draining it with negative thoughts. Sounds easy but we all know its not.And it's most certainly not inappropriate to vent here, if this is where you feel comfortable to do so then vent away. Clearly you have the support here. Id be happy to catch up for a beer or something if your in the Brisbane area and want to chat to somebody outside your circle of friends which can sometimes help as we have no preconceptions about your situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralph Wiggum Moar Powar Babeh Lifetime Members 19,323 Member For: 19y 3m 3d Gender: Male Location: Perth Posted 15/04/14 12:04 AM Share Posted 15/04/14 12:04 AM I feel sorta awkward now for wantin to rant about miniscule things :(Don't ever assume what you consider to be difficulties in your life are less important than the difficulties other people are having.Little things can quickly compound into bigger things and have very negative effects. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rab WOT? Moderating Team 10,981 Member For: 11y 10m 1d Gender: Male Location: Frankston, 3199 Posted 15/04/14 12:16 AM Share Posted 15/04/14 12:16 AM Feel for you Matty.One thing I found that helped me greatly was getting in contact with a good mate that I'd only see occasionally.I'd known the bloke for years and considered him a close friend, but we moved in different circles etc and he really didn't have much to do with the misses. As such I was able to use him as a great sounding board, spill my guts and frustrations out to him and was able to be myself - was no issue with regards to the female involved as he wasn't part of that bit of my life - wasn't in a position where he had to be diplomatic, feel like he was getting stuck in the middle of something and I had no need to hold back etc. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TomT Spooling Member Donating Members 961 Member For: 13y 20d Gender: Male Location: Blue Mountains, NSW Posted 15/04/14 12:26 AM Share Posted 15/04/14 12:26 AM Hold in there Matty. Know where you're coming from, went through a really bad break up after a 3 year relationship about 3 years ago, tore my life apart at the time but everything runs its course and does get better mate!100% with Raband, get in contact with an old friend, someone with an outside perspective.And another piece of advice is to keep busy! Don't sit around at home reminding yourself of everything non stop. Go catch up with some mates, voice your feelings, the load is so much lighter when it's not all on your head. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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