XRSCAR Member 414 Member For: 16y 11m 6d Gender: Male Location: FTG, Victoria Posted 19/04/08 06:21 PM Share Posted 19/04/08 06:21 PM Im actually sorry for writing this but I need to vent something about it and this seems the only right place for me atm.Tonight me and the missus broke it off after 3 1/2 years and its completly desktroyed me I have no idea what to dom she was half the reason I got the car in the first place..I feel like a rehab posting this, you guys never even met me and im sobbing my arse off , I really wish I was at that meet tonight now its been the worst night in my life so far!XR6T is my 2nd love (gave the keys away so I wont do something stuipid) please I really need somebody to speak to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guests Posted 19/04/08 06:35 PM Share Posted 19/04/08 06:35 PM It's always hard at the beginning of a break-up mate but it'll get better as time goes on. Who knows... you's could be back together again tomorrow or the day after!Just keep your chin up and know that everything happens for a reason Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
F6_Charlie Donating Members 1,001 Member For: 20y 4m 16d Gender: Male Posted 19/04/08 06:49 PM Share Posted 19/04/08 06:49 PM He's right mate everything does happen for a reason.Just stay strong dude, it'll all work its self out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
straughsberry Donating Members 1,846 Member For: 17y 4m 29d Gender: Male Location: Broady, Melbourne Posted 19/04/08 07:33 PM Share Posted 19/04/08 07:33 PM (edited) Shane, I went through divorce after 9 years of marriage and 5 years of going out before that. Yeah it wasn't a great thing to go through but I got through it. It's obviously still very fresh for you so you would be high on emotion right now. Just give it some time mate because that's what it will take. And sure we don't really know you but you've done the right thing by talking about it. Don't try and analyse too much right now because you'll just drive yourself nuts. In the short term, try to keep your mind occupied with other things if you can. You more than likely will not find too many answers until things settle a bit anyway. Keep us in the loop...Damn, I sound like a shrink. Group buy on therapy sessions anyone? Edited 19/04/08 07:35 PM by straughsberry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erko Donating Members 1,079 Member For: 21y 3m 13d Gender: Male Location: Sydney Posted 19/04/08 08:25 PM Share Posted 19/04/08 08:25 PM Gday Shane, Straughsberry is dead right mate.I have been at the bottom of major holes (no jokes please lads this is serious) and have always been able to pull myself out. The key thing is time, and although now you cant see a situation where you wont be hurting and you dont beleive you will get past it, trust me mate you will.Just keep busy and put one foot in front of the other. If you need someone to talk to the best bet is to give Mens Line a call its a free Govt. service mate - cant hurt 1300 78 99 78all the best Rob Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sixfan Flaccid Member Donating Members 2,503 Member For: 21y 7m 26d Gender: Male Location: NOONAMAH, go figure..... Posted 19/04/08 08:49 PM Share Posted 19/04/08 08:49 PM talk to your mates, they'll drag you off and keep you distracted, that's what they're for...most of us have been there as well, so don't stress too much about that! best thing for now is to keep your mind occupied elsewhere... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maverick Member 4 Member For: 17y 7m 3d Gender: Male Location: Gold Coast Posted 19/04/08 09:13 PM Share Posted 19/04/08 09:13 PM (edited) Mate, Sorry, don't be, the reality is most of us have been through the pain/hurt you are going through and as far away it seems right now everyone is correct re time heals all wounds although at this point you can not see that, I speak of experience myself.The best thing to not do is get into the grog or any other may we say stimulants as I have seen these just exaggerate your emotions.I used the time by first getting myself in better physical shape, you look better and naturally feel better, I worked harder and spent more time with my family.Again you will not see it now but today two yrs on I have found myself engaged to the best women in the world for me and I thought that's what I had in the passed, silly/dum me.Mate believe me the grass is greener on the other side provided we learn from our past imperfect.Keep posting if you want to, we are here. PM me if you need to, Regards Edited 19/04/08 09:15 PM by Maverick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOZZTURBO Donating Members 237 Member For: 18y 5m 18d Gender: Male Location: Melbourne Posted 19/04/08 09:54 PM Share Posted 19/04/08 09:54 PM I know how you fill mate, take it easy me and my misis broke up after 19 years of marriage , it hurts alot but be strong . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
senna_T Forged Member Lifetime Members 15,818 Member For: 17y 11m 8d Gender: Male Location: SW Sydney Posted 19/04/08 11:04 PM Share Posted 19/04/08 11:04 PM awww, I feel all warm and fuzzy! Good to see there is some support out there in T land - keep your head up scar, there's obviously a reason why it didn't work out and fighting every couple of weeks is no way to have a relationship mate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stealthxr Donating Members 553 Member For: 18y 11m 9d Gender: Male Location: The Shire Sydney AUS Posted 20/04/08 12:49 AM Share Posted 20/04/08 12:49 AM Scar , head up buddy, Im going thru the same sort of thing.... all things happen for a reason... Get the boys together and go on the prowl , that should take ure mind off it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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