The Off Topic Thread.

[Pixy Angel]

What would you do?

Wife's friend has been ding the dirty on her husband for a few years now. I know both of them and have for 10 year or so.

Would you let the husband now or say nothing?

Me, I think he has the right to know I would like if it was happening to me but at the same time I dont give a f*#k none of my business.

Its just a matter of time before she gets caught out and her worlds gets turn up side down.

[Ralph Wiggum]

How would you feel if your mate knew that and didn't tell you?

[Lennox]

Tell her you'll tell him unless she let's you root her?

Nah I dunno been in the same situation.. is he a better mate than the girl? I'd tell him

[Mrs Jeturbo]

Deflect blame

Figure out a way to tell him without telling him

Then all parties win

Except her ️Lololol

[Rab]

SMS from a random phone

"Ya misses has been doing the dirty for 10 years - ask her about xxxxx, xxxx and xxxxxxx"

Done

[Pixy Angel]

I dont want to get involved none of my business and it desnt affect me I dont really talk to either of them.

[ms700]

youve known both of them for nearly 10 years but you dont really talk to either of them

oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooookay

[Mrs Jeturbo]

Ok well I'll play Devils advocate

Not condoning the actions at all just saying :

Do u know this 100%

If so do u know that their relatonship isn't abusive or that he is not for example making her stay because he bribes her with threats or even physical abuse

Do u know they aren't in an open relationship and just don't tell others about it so your assuming she's cheating but don't really know

Do u know that she isnt previously mentally scared because he has cheated on her

Are u there every night to watch them interact and know what their lives are like otherwise

If the answer is no then stfu

It's got nothing to do with u

U have no idea what happens behind closed doors and what u could be f*cking up for more than one person

Unless u are going to pick up the pieces then u have no right to pull the trigger on the gun unless u know all facts and figures

Edited 02/07/15 05:30 AM by Princess Whinginator

[k31th]

get video/pictorial evidence and make sure to get it to him anonymously.

Then he has no choice but to action on it himself (ignore is an option) if it's actually a problem for him.

If it's not a problem for him he can safely just destroy the evidence

[Mrs Jeturbo]

And if he does this and he hypothetically is unstable, has an episode, and ends up beating her to a pulp or killing Her ?

Not condoning as I said

But This person isn't his best mate who he knows how to deal with

This is by all accounts almost a stranger

My last partner was abusive

I'm no flower

But when a 120kg guy throws u on the ground for changing the tv channel then kicks you in the guts until his brother happens to walk in and stops him , you think differently about people's situations

(Cue the jokes about not being able to change the channel)

I felt trapped for so long. After having a miss carriage and not even seeing him walk in the hospital to say hello I finally got strength and hung out with friends, I met jet, and before anything ever happened he accused me of cheating, big whoop if I did, but I didn't, he became a nightmare

I was already moving out at this stage

But he to all our friends seemed like a legend

Great partner

Great bloke

Funny

Happy

After a while he wasn't to me anymore

U know what if I did cheat on him I wouldn't have an ounce of remorse

But if someone told him when we were together

I might not be alive

U never know what can of worms your opening for someone else

Be wary is all I'm saying

Edited 02/07/15 05:40 AM by Princess Whinginator