Pixy Angel Expert Donating Members 9,132 Member For: 19y 9m 25d Gender: Male Location: North Jamberoo, NSW Posted 02/07/15 04:38 AM Share Posted 02/07/15 04:38 AM What would you do?Wife's friend has been ding the dirty on her husband for a few years now. I know both of them and have for 10 year or so.Would you let the husband now or say nothing?Me, I think he has the right to know I would like if it was happening to me but at the same time I dont give a f*#k none of my business.Its just a matter of time before she gets caught out and her worlds gets turn up side down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralph Wiggum Moar Powar Babeh Lifetime Members 19,323 Member For: 19y 2m 29d Gender: Male Location: Perth Posted 02/07/15 04:40 AM Share Posted 02/07/15 04:40 AM How would you feel if your mate knew that and didn't tell you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lennox Member 2,586 Member For: 11y 9m 26d Gender: Male Location: Perth Posted 02/07/15 04:50 AM Share Posted 02/07/15 04:50 AM Tell her you'll tell him unless she let's you root her?Nah I dunno been in the same situation.. is he a better mate than the girl? I'd tell him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Jeturbo Bob the Freaking Builder Donating Members 10,813 Member For: 15y 3m 9d Gender: Female Location: SA Posted 02/07/15 05:02 AM Share Posted 02/07/15 05:02 AM Deflect blame Figure out a way to tell him without telling him Then all parties win Except her ️Lololol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rab WOT? Moderating Team 10,981 Member For: 11y 9m 27d Gender: Male Location: Frankston, 3199 Posted 02/07/15 05:06 AM Share Posted 02/07/15 05:06 AM SMS from a random phone"Ya misses has been doing the dirty for 10 years - ask her about xxxxx, xxxx and xxxxxxx"Done Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pixy Angel Expert Donating Members 9,132 Member For: 19y 9m 25d Gender: Male Location: North Jamberoo, NSW Posted 02/07/15 05:10 AM Share Posted 02/07/15 05:10 AM I dont want to get involved none of my business and it desnt affect me I dont really talk to either of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ms700 Moderating Team 10,170 Member For: 21y 10m 21d Gender: Male Location: Sydney Posted 02/07/15 05:16 AM Share Posted 02/07/15 05:16 AM youve known both of them for nearly 10 years but you dont really talk to either of themoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooookay 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Jeturbo Bob the Freaking Builder Donating Members 10,813 Member For: 15y 3m 9d Gender: Female Location: SA Posted 02/07/15 05:27 AM Share Posted 02/07/15 05:27 AM (edited) Ok well I'll play Devils advocate Not condoning the actions at all just saying :Do u know this 100% If so do u know that their relatonship isn't abusive or that he is not for example making her stay because he bribes her with threats or even physical abuse Do u know they aren't in an open relationship and just don't tell others about it so your assuming she's cheating but don't really know Do u know that she isnt previously mentally scared because he has cheated on her Are u there every night to watch them interact and know what their lives are like otherwise If the answer is no then stfu It's got nothing to do with u U have no idea what happens behind closed doors and what u could be f*cking up for more than one person Unless u are going to pick up the pieces then u have no right to pull the trigger on the gun unless u know all facts and figures Edited 02/07/15 05:30 AM by Princess Whinginator Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k31th less WHY; more WOT Site Developer 29,050 Member For: 16y 8m 12d Gender: Male Location: Melbourne Posted 02/07/15 05:32 AM Share Posted 02/07/15 05:32 AM get video/pictorial evidence and make sure to get it to him anonymously.Then he has no choice but to action on it himself (ignore is an option) if it's actually a problem for him.If it's not a problem for him he can safely just destroy the evidence Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Jeturbo Bob the Freaking Builder Donating Members 10,813 Member For: 15y 3m 9d Gender: Female Location: SA Posted 02/07/15 05:34 AM Share Posted 02/07/15 05:34 AM (edited) And if he does this and he hypothetically is unstable, has an episode, and ends up beating her to a pulp or killing Her ? Not condoning as I said But This person isn't his best mate who he knows how to deal withThis is by all accounts almost a strangerMy last partner was abusiveI'm no flower But when a 120kg guy throws u on the ground for changing the tv channel then kicks you in the guts until his brother happens to walk in and stops him , you think differently about people's situations (Cue the jokes about not being able to change the channel) I felt trapped for so long. After having a miss carriage and not even seeing him walk in the hospital to say hello I finally got strength and hung out with friends, I met jet, and before anything ever happened he accused me of cheating, big whoop if I did, but I didn't, he became a nightmare I was already moving out at this stage But he to all our friends seemed like a legend Great partner Great bloke Funny Happy After a while he wasn't to me anymore U know what if I did cheat on him I wouldn't have an ounce of remorse But if someone told him when we were together I might not be aliveU never know what can of worms your opening for someone else Be wary is all I'm saying Edited 02/07/15 05:40 AM by Princess Whinginator Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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