Adam Here since the start... Lifetime Members 10,282 Member For: 21y 6m 10d Gender: Male Location: Victoria Posted 25/04/07 02:47 AM Share Posted 25/04/07 02:47 AM Sorry to hear about this old mate.When you rang me the other night this was one of the thoughts that went through my head.I don't think breakups are ever easy, I've just split up with my girlfriend after 6 years and it's the hardest thing I've ever had to do.Goodluck with everything and you know how to reach me if you need to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RHR BOOST Moderating Team 5,698 Member For: 21y 2m Gender: Male Location: Southern Highlands NSW Posted 25/04/07 06:15 AM Share Posted 25/04/07 06:15 AM Sorry to hear mate.. Best of luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetute Donating Members 4,553 Member For: 20y 9m 4d Gender: Male Location: brisbane Posted 25/04/07 06:30 AM Share Posted 25/04/07 06:30 AM sorry to hear Ian!!hope all pans out well for you both... these things are never easy but if anyone can cope, its you big fella!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stang Donating Members 1,353 Member For: 20y 9m 16d Location: Melbourne Posted 25/04/07 06:43 AM Share Posted 25/04/07 06:43 AM Sorry to hear mate , have never experienced it, but I could imagine what your going through.Hope that one day you meet your true soulmate and everything looks up for you.Best thing is that I`m sure your mates are there for you for support and don`t let it bring you down. hopefully you still got your health your business and as you said your kids. At the very least buy a dog they`ll always stick buy you.(if you don`t already have one.)Good luck and may the future be good to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RAPHOON Donating Members 1,776 Member For: 21y 4m 9d Posted 25/04/07 07:12 AM Share Posted 25/04/07 07:12 AM Sad news indeed Ian.I wish you both well. Just remember, anything that doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoon Member 284 Member For: 18y 10m 8d Gender: Male Posted 25/04/07 07:14 AM Share Posted 25/04/07 07:14 AM Ian, very sorry to hear mate. Dont forget mate, you not only have friends in here but all of your extended family in the FPV club mate. We are all only a phone call away if you need a shoulder to lean on mate.CheersJeff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xrdreaming Lifetime Members 1,693 Member For: 21y 9m 7d Gender: Male Location: Melbourne Posted 25/04/07 07:47 AM Share Posted 25/04/07 07:47 AM As the others have said mate, sorry to hear the sad news. I too hope that it is all soughted out as best a possible for the both of you. Hopefully you both take away some memories of happier times and try to remember that the things that you have each shared and learned from each other are worth a lot more and will stay with you both longer than material things and money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
01txr Member 861 Member For: 17y 9m 22d Gender: Male Location: QLD Posted 25/04/07 08:15 AM Share Posted 25/04/07 08:15 AM Have never met you.Sorry to here about your split.I know how much it eats you out as have been there before when my 3 littlies where all under 4 yo and while it was I didn't even see or hear from my children for over 6 mths.I was doing everything through the justice system which we all know is like reverse geared.I was very upset for along time and at this 6mth period I was given rights to see my children.On the first encounter I picked them up at arranged point.My wife pleaded for me back and in the end I gave in and set the terms.Hope it all works out for you.Sometimes this is needed so you can realise how much you take each other for granted, and may make your relationship even stronger, then on the other hand it may make you realise how stupid you where with the relationship and make you a better person.I found though when you have no partner you get to hang with your friends more often and play with your toy, in your case Goldie.It wasn't Goldie that came between your relationship as this is what caused my seperation. Wife said paying to much attention to my car and not her and my brother being there when I was playing with my car also didn't help matters.Us guys have to realise that the other sex does get jealous over what ever comes in the way of there time with you.Good luck and now you might get that engine bay secret done quicker.If you are going on Tabs cruise may catch up with you and chat some on fast cars and women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Turbo6man Lifetime Members 4,084 Member For: 22y 26d Gender: Male Location: South Coast NSW Posted 25/04/07 08:44 AM Share Posted 25/04/07 08:44 AM Sorry to hear that Ian. It can be a very stressful time. Can I offer you this? ...TIPS FOR STRESS MANAGEMENTJust in case you've had a rough day, here is a stress management techniquerecommended in all the latest psychological texts. The funny thing is that itreally works.1. Picture yourself near a stream.2. Birds are softly chirping in the cool mountain air.3. No one but you knows your secret place.4. You are in total seclusion from the hectic place called "the world."5. The soothing sound of a gentle waterfall fills the air with a cascade of serenity.6. The water is crystal clear.7. You can easily make out the face of the person you're holding underwater. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barry Blue Powered by Ford's 3.7 V6 = Zoom Zoom Zoom! Member 890 Member For: 20y 6d Gender: Male Location: Tweed Heads Posted 25/04/07 08:52 AM Share Posted 25/04/07 08:52 AM Time will heal mate, and I'm sure Goldie will help keep that big smile on your face.Clarke Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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