Advice On A Girl. I'd Never Of Thought...

[Lawsy]

  Fattony said:

  Lawsy said:

  Adam said:

Somewhat good advice Lawsy...

But he could end up with more baggage than she's currently carrying if he dives in head first.

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Ohh no I'm not saying dive in, make sure you step with caution. Helping her out with the right intentions will lead to her being... Helped out. that's the way it has to stay until you are 100% sure you have a relationship that is worth chasing after. Because if not, if she is a clown, still help her out until whatever was needed is finished, then just stay as an acquaintance and nothing more.

No baggage, no hurt. Just a little time well spent helping someone, which will simply help you out for a future relationship.

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All depends if both members of the said party would not mind just being friends in the end, if that inst the truth, then that could lead to hurt

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discernment is a good thing.

If you never try, you can never gain. Time can heal all wounds and if you take your lessons with each and every situation, without just getting pissed off about it (remembering that the only person you can change is you), then you'll be the better man for it.

If you get burned, its up to you as to what happens.... Long term baggage or a life lesson learned. To stay mad or forgive (respectively).

I don't need to be proven in what I'm saying here either.... I only hope I can help a brother out with a bit of tried and true advice. All the old foggies who still shag 10 times a week at the age of 70 and can't imagine life with anyone else have based there relationship on this sort of thing. Forgive and make the right choices, they live to show you how it works...

At the same time, all the divorse of today is based on the exact opposite. Get pissed off and hold onto the baggage.

You decide.

[Fat-Tony]

  Lawsy said:

  Fattony said:

  Lawsy said:

  Adam said:

Somewhat good advice Lawsy...

But he could end up with more baggage than she's currently carrying if he dives in head first.

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Ohh no I'm not saying dive in, make sure you step with caution. Helping her out with the right intentions will lead to her being... Helped out. that's the way it has to stay until you are 100% sure you have a relationship that is worth chasing after. Because if not, if she is a clown, still help her out until whatever was needed is finished, then just stay as an acquaintance and nothing more.

No baggage, no hurt. Just a little time well spent helping someone, which will simply help you out for a future relationship.

←

All depends if both members of the said party would not mind just being friends in the end, if that inst the truth, then that could lead to hurt

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discernment is a good thing.

If you never try, you can never gain. Time can heal all wounds and if you take your lessons with each and every situation, without just getting pissed off about it (remembering that the only person you can change is you), then you'll be the better man for it.

If you get burned, its up to you as to what happens.... Long term baggage or a life lesson learned. To stay mad or forgive (respectively).

I don't need to be proven in what I'm saying here either.... I only hope I can help a brother out with a bit of tried and true advice. All the old foggies who still shag 10 times a week at the age of 70 base there relationship on this sort of thing. Forgive and make the right choices...

All the divorse today is the exact opposite. Get pissed off and hold onto the baggage.

You decide.

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good words but a little to D&M for this time of night, on that note im off

[phantomchic]

  Lawsy said:

The more you focus on getting a shag, the less likely you are to get any sort of relationship that is worth a damn. As tough as everyone appears to be on here, focussing on there next root, they are a pack of pussies underneath who probably cry watching the news, and haven't had a meaningful relationship that they were actually happy with for years... (obvious bait).

So just do the best you can to be a nice bloke. Have a selfless attitude.

What can you lose? The fact that you helped someone out? Even if she takes you for a bit of a ride, who cares, you didn't lose anything, you just bullt character and will know how to handle it better in the future...

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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  Lawsy said:

  Fattony said:

  Lawsy said:

  Adam said:

Somewhat good advice Lawsy...

But he could end up with more baggage than she's currently carrying if he dives in head first.

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Ohh no I'm not saying dive in, make sure you step with caution. Helping her out with the right intentions will lead to her being... Helped out. that's the way it has to stay until you are 100% sure you have a relationship that is worth chasing after. Because if not, if she is a clown, still help her out until whatever was needed is finished, then just stay as an acquaintance and nothing more.

No baggage, no hurt. Just a little time well spent helping someone, which will simply help you out for a future relationship.

←

All depends if both members of the said party would not mind just being friends in the end, if that inst the truth, then that could lead to hurt

←

discernment is a good thing.

If you never try, you can never gain. Time can heal all wounds and if you take your lessons with each and every situation, without just getting pissed off about it (remembering that the only person you can change is you), then you'll be the better man for it.

If you get burned, its up to you as to what happens.... Long term baggage or a life lesson learned. To stay mad or forgive (respectively).

I don't need to be proven in what I'm saying here either.... I only hope I can help a brother out with a bit of tried and true advice. All the old foggies who still shag 10 times a week at the age of 70 and can't imagine life with anyone else have based there relationship on this sort of thing. Forgive and make the right choices, they live to show you how it works...

At the same time, all the divorse of today is based on the exact opposite. Get pissed off and hold onto the baggage.

You decide.

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impressive there Lawsy

shazzy

[Lawsy]

  Fattony said:

  Lawsy said:

  Fattony said:

  Lawsy said:

  Adam said:

Somewhat good advice Lawsy...

But he could end up with more baggage than she's currently carrying if he dives in head first.

←

Ohh no I'm not saying dive in, make sure you step with caution. Helping her out with the right intentions will lead to her being... Helped out. that's the way it has to stay until you are 100% sure you have a relationship that is worth chasing after. Because if not, if she is a clown, still help her out until whatever was needed is finished, then just stay as an acquaintance and nothing more.

No baggage, no hurt. Just a little time well spent helping someone, which will simply help you out for a future relationship.

←

All depends if both members of the said party would not mind just being friends in the end, if that inst the truth, then that could lead to hurt

←

discernment is a good thing.

If you never try, you can never gain. Time can heal all wounds and if you take your lessons with each and every situation, without just getting pissed off about it (remembering that the only person you can change is you), then you'll be the better man for it.

If you get burned, its up to you as to what happens.... Long term baggage or a life lesson learned. To stay mad or forgive (respectively).

I don't need to be proven in what I'm saying here either.... I only hope I can help a brother out with a bit of tried and true advice. All the old foggies who still shag 10 times a week at the age of 70 base there relationship on this sort of thing. Forgive and make the right choices...

All the divorse today is the exact opposite. Get pissed off and hold onto the baggage.

You decide.

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good words but a little to D&M for this time of night, on that note im off

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It aint easy though, let me tell you that much....

Yeah and I guess it is a little deep... But hey, I'm a mechanical engineer... We're always deep in something...

[SAMSXR6T]

I wouldnt keep trying.. if she choose's her ex boyfriend before you kiss her good bye..

[LTS60]

U fall in love too quick mate lol.

[qwigybo]

  DARREN said:

Ooopps,

I forgot about this picture.

I'm in deep  if this gets out....mods after one day erase this topic....kind of ashame though, look at all the interest its sparked!!!

Darren

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oi where the pic go some of us didn't get to see it

[Guest]

Good morning,

Firstly, your all s@#thouse at giving advice.

Secondly, you all did a fantastic job at helping me helping me split my guts laughing.

Thirdly, I'm seeing her tonight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cheers

Darren

[cobrav8]

Good luck pal.

Dont be too nice - make sure she knows how you feel as well.

And if she wants a but of fun - it would be wrong to deny her your assistance.

[sixfan]

I had a on off thing goin for yonks chased her for ~ a year everything was on her terms and I got treated badly. Gave up in the end went off and had some fun elsewhere...What do you know...guess who came knocking at my door. Gave her a good 2 hours of verbal abuse for treating me the way she did, then told to to get the F outa my life.

we're now living together....

I'll never understand 'em. I guess some people don't value something unless they think someone else wants it.

Advice for you? If you want her, give it a go, I wouldn't try and be sneaky about it, tell her upfront what your intentions are.