BA_Turbs Member 836 Member For: 21y 4m 13d Gender: Male Posted 07/04/05 12:42 AM Share Posted 07/04/05 12:42 AM I had an ex that was going around to another blokes house for coffee all the time, they were good friends and would catch up all the time.It didn't feel right, plus a few other issues so I told her we were parting ways.Had it confirmed about 2 months later that she was f*cking this blokes guts out. One of her friends that she pissed off told me. Oh well, just cut out the dead wood, got a great girlfriend now who I've moved in with. The BIGGEST difference in the relationship is that trust exists. Its so much more relaxing. And I'm not a jealous guy, some of my mates are full on "over-protective" of their gf's and hound them with phone calls if they go out for a night etc. I don't, never have. Without sounding like a misguided romantic, trust is what its based on. Without it, you just worry your guts out 24-7. Best of Luck with your situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fordboy1981 Donating Members 2,075 Member For: 21y 11m 15d Gender: Male Location: Sydney, NSW Posted 07/04/05 02:52 AM Share Posted 07/04/05 02:52 AM I totally agree with you mate...BUT, you probabily need to show you trust her, that she won't do anythingwith him...I mean I have friends that are girls and we go out all the time (in a group), my girlfriend doesn't mind because she trusts me...Trust is the key to all relationships, if you don't trust each other it won't last...just my 2c, not to be taken personally.Dave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turb06 Dark Knight Mafia Member No. - 666 Member 3,667 Member For: 21y 10m 8d Location: Toowoomba Posted 07/04/05 11:39 AM Share Posted 07/04/05 11:39 AM Dave are any of thise girls your ex? Also its a little different going out as a group than a one on one meeting, its a lot more intimate when your alone.Dazza. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tongueboy Member 457 Member For: 21y 9m 3d Gender: Male Location: Tamworth, Armidale NSW Posted 07/04/05 02:54 PM Share Posted 07/04/05 02:54 PM bye bye, my way or the highway!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dswiders Member 398 Member For: 21y 1m 7d Gender: Male Location: Boronia, Vic Posted 09/04/05 02:33 AM Share Posted 09/04/05 02:33 AM Is it possible that this girl's already been 'seeing' this other guy ?It all sounds fishy to me, I suppose it's not a matter of jelousy but a matter of trust.If you trust her, then all is ok, if you don't be very wary. Are you able to sit down with her and communicate on a level playing field ?And can she accept what you tell her ?If she's not prepared to listen to what you have to say, kcuf her brains out, thank her and then tell her your moving on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HellionXR6T I'm Back!! Thats right, long over due! :) Lifetime Members 4,348 Member For: 22y 1m 29d Gender: Male Location: West Brisbane Posted 09/04/05 03:08 AM Share Posted 09/04/05 03:08 AM Tell her to off. I'm probably not in the right frame of mind as my experience with the EX has left me with the choice of NEVER getting married EVER again!!! Her wanting to cook for him? Be with him? Sorry, one dog, one bone. What happens if you two have a fight, where is she going to run? You betcha!!! Right to him!<EXIT: Stage right> Get outta there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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