God666 Complete Bastard Donating Members 1,123 Member For: 21y 6m 13d Gender: Male Location: Sydney Posted 04/04/05 11:16 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 11:16 PM Tell her you are going to have dinner with Scotty. Even she would know of his reputation for moral indiscretions and she should plead with you not to go. See how she likes a taste of her own medicine! Link to comment https://www.fordxr6turbo.com/forum/topic/16762-ive-been-dating-this-bird-for-a-few-mths/page/4/#findComment-239199 Share on other sites More sharing options...
XRBloke Donating Members 1,219 Member For: 21y 11m 22d Posted 04/04/05 11:26 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 11:26 PM How about the 3 of you do dinner??? Theres nohting wrong with haveing dinner with a friend at her place, but really if its a 1 on 1 dinner then id really be quite concerned with what might come for desert. Link to comment https://www.fordxr6turbo.com/forum/topic/16762-ive-been-dating-this-bird-for-a-few-mths/page/4/#findComment-239201 Share on other sites More sharing options...
TurboDewd FG Falcon fan! Member 1,452 Member For: 21y 11m 11d Gender: Male Location: Canberra Posted 04/04/05 11:37 PM Author Share Posted 04/04/05 11:37 PM thanx fellasI just think its ridiculous. I would never entertain the idea of hosting dinner for an ex who I only shagged for a month (regardless of how long we were friends before or after), I simply wouldnt want my new girlfriend to have to even think about such a silly situation. I mean you can keep in touch or swap emails, but that's abou it. Link to comment https://www.fordxr6turbo.com/forum/topic/16762-ive-been-dating-this-bird-for-a-few-mths/page/4/#findComment-239203 Share on other sites More sharing options...
jordak Member 1,226 Member For: 21y 8d Posted 05/04/05 12:02 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 12:02 AM (edited) Still early on in your relationship and given that you obviously care about the girl it may be worth riding this one out. Dumping herl is the easy way out and whist its good for the ego to call the shots that's little consulation if it turns out being a love lost. If all is not well I am sure there will be plenty of other signs for you to pick up on.I went through almost the exact same situation, it turned out to be cosha and we have now been happily married for 9 years.Dr Phil Edited 05/04/05 12:16 AM by jordak Link to comment https://www.fordxr6turbo.com/forum/topic/16762-ive-been-dating-this-bird-for-a-few-mths/page/4/#findComment-239207 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Cyric Just sit back and enjoy the ride...! Donating Members 1,121 Member For: 21y 9m 24d Gender: Male Location: Sydney, NSW Posted 05/04/05 12:28 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 12:28 AM IMHO - just be totally open & honest with her. Tell her that this really freaks you out and that you don't feel comfortable about it. You could call this a "real test" of your relationship and if it will or will not cope with these situations.Anyway, my track record with the ladies ain't that pretty... so go with your gut and if it's meant to be, she'll do the right thing by you. If not, then it's better to settle it now and not have it blow up a couple of years later when you are "heavily invested"... (gee, I wonder where I got that from... ) Link to comment https://www.fordxr6turbo.com/forum/topic/16762-ive-been-dating-this-bird-for-a-few-mths/page/4/#findComment-239219 Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlr8ed Phantom lives Member 1,417 Member For: 21y 1m 27d Gender: Male Location: who knows Posted 05/04/05 12:43 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 12:43 AM Tell her to boot off !!! plenty more out there that wont give a sh*t about their X and concentrate on U only....I know this cause I got three of emjeff Link to comment https://www.fordxr6turbo.com/forum/topic/16762-ive-been-dating-this-bird-for-a-few-mths/page/4/#findComment-239223 Share on other sites More sharing options...
PASHEN Member 868 Member For: 21y 6m 22d Location: Need one.. Posted 05/04/05 12:58 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 12:58 AM xlr8ed said: Tell her to boot off !!! plenty more out there that wont give a sh*t about their X and concentrate on U only....I know this cause I got three of emjeff<{POST_SNAPBACK}> classic Jeff - do they let you airbrush their body as well? Link to comment https://www.fordxr6turbo.com/forum/topic/16762-ive-been-dating-this-bird-for-a-few-mths/page/4/#findComment-239227 Share on other sites More sharing options...
drcook Member 752 Member For: 20y 9m 29d Location: leonay Posted 05/04/05 01:00 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 01:00 AM TurboDewd said: Ok, a bit of background, Ive been seeing M for a bit over 2 mths. Anyway, on our 2nd or 3rd date she said, very indelicately for a woman, that a few mths prior to me she had a one month sexual relationship with a guy. Anyway, occasionally in discussions this guys name pops up, M says she has a soft spot for him coz he had a public breakup with a mutual bunch of friends. In that breakup M tends to defend the guy more than the girl who also apparently miscarried that same guy's kid.Anyway, its his birthday this friday and M thinks shes gonna take him out to dinner or cook for him?! I think that is just plain weird and I dont like it, I think it stinks. Call me old-fashioned, but if you have a 1 month fling and then start up another proper relationship you should kinda limit meet ups with ex's to maybe emails or the odd phone call - not bloody hosting them for dinner.What do u guys think?<{POST_SNAPBACK}>it sounds a bit funny. ive been with my girl for 18 months, and I also have alot of female friends, who I regularly go to pubs or catch up with, and my girls cool about it. but I think having dinner or going out especially for dinner is getting weird. Link to comment https://www.fordxr6turbo.com/forum/topic/16762-ive-been-dating-this-bird-for-a-few-mths/page/4/#findComment-239228 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blonk Iconoclast Donating Members 4,330 Member For: 20y 8m 21d Gender: Male Location: CH Posted 05/04/05 02:02 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 02:02 AM Maybe she is just looking for attention cause you spend too much time on the internet with your back to her and she just want to know you still want jump her..... Sixfan got me thinking - sometimes its sh*t we do that makes them react the way they do.. Or just listen to the Plonksta... And chop her Link to comment https://www.fordxr6turbo.com/forum/topic/16762-ive-been-dating-this-bird-for-a-few-mths/page/4/#findComment-239239 Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktford FORD FORD FORD Donating Members 9,390 Member For: 22y 3m Gender: Male Location: Victoria Point In Brissy's eastern side Posted 05/04/05 04:37 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 04:37 AM xlr8ed said: Tell her to boot off !!! plenty more out there that wont give a sh*t about their X and concentrate on U only....I know this cause I got three of emjeffObviously an expert worth taking note of Just by coincidence Geeseman tells me he thinks she may benefit from an APS Edit program. His prognosis is that she is coming onto boost too early. Scotty Link to comment https://www.fordxr6turbo.com/forum/topic/16762-ive-been-dating-this-bird-for-a-few-mths/page/4/#findComment-239286 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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