geea Site protagonist Lifetime Members 4,320 Member For: 21y 7m 21d Gender: Male Location: At the lights, waiting for you. Posted 05/04/05 04:37 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 04:37 AM Tell her how it is and how it's going to be. She needs to get this guy a birthday card and post it to him. If she wants to have him round for dinner tell her fine, have a nice life. There is a big difference between being friends and being "friends". This is crossing the line.Bottom don't take any sh*t. If they are giving you sh*t they obviously don't care enough about you.Geea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Macktheknife Xtreme Xalted Member Donating Members 3,112 Member For: 21y 7m 28d Gender: Male Location: BrisVegas Posted 05/04/05 04:41 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 04:41 AM Tell her to boot off !!! plenty more out there that wont give a sh*t about their X and concentrate on U only....I know this cause I got three of emjeffObviously an expert worth taking note of Just by coincidence Geeseman tells me he thinks she may benefit from an APS Edit program. His prognosis is that she is coming onto boost too early. ScottyNow that's a TEN............... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobra potty trained Lifetime Members 1,938 Member For: 21y 8m 8d Gender: Male Posted 05/04/05 05:40 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 05:40 AM She's gone manYour're being played or a suckerDon't ever cop that crapWomen are full of their own self importance so she needs to go and look after this bloke and you need to go ignore her and find someone else.Not worth it...no matter how many good things she does or how much you want her..ask her if the letters F O mean anything to her (al la Smokey and the Bandit Movie) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3rdTurbo Team - Anti Rice Blueprint Member # 1 Member 202 Member For: 21y 4m 7d Location: Sydney Posted 05/04/05 06:10 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 06:10 AM Still early on in your relationship and given that you obviously care about the girl it may be worth riding this one out. Dumping herl is the easy way out and whist its good for the ego to call the shots that's little consulation if it turns out being a love lost. If all is not well I am sure there will be plenty of other signs for you to pick up on.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>You seem to be playing second fiddle. From your perspective it's probably not so black and white. There does seem to be a consensus that your relationship does not appear to be as solid as you want it to be. If you do decide to dump her, don't leave the situation wondering if you were too rash in calling it off. You seem to be very fond of her, so maybe give it one last shot. I reckon you should tell how much you like her etc etc. (Put yourself out on a limb). Let her know that you are uncomfortable with the "other dude" and that you would only be interested in the relationship once this "dude" is out of the picture. Ask her then and there to be honest and tell you if she can do this. If she agrees, problem solved for now. You will need to keep an eye on this as she is unlikely to detach from the other dude straight away. This will take time - maybe months. If she pauses or says no, then ask her if she needs a few days to figure things out. THEN - DO NOT MAKE ANY CONTACT WITH HER!!!! Wait for her reply.This way, you will know for sure where you stand. Forget the importance of who breaks up with whom! It's all ego anyway! I mean if you break up, and you're not speaking to each other - who's gonna know (or care)????Hey man - good luck with whole thing!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Macktheknife Xtreme Xalted Member Donating Members 3,112 Member For: 21y 7m 28d Gender: Male Location: BrisVegas Posted 05/04/05 06:15 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 06:15 AM Still early on in your relationship and given that you obviously care about the girl it may be worth riding this one out. Dumping herl is the easy way out and whist its good for the ego to call the shots that's little consulation if it turns out being a love lost. If all is not well I am sure there will be plenty of other signs for you to pick up on.You seem to be playing second fiddle. From your perspective it's probably not so black and white. There does seem to be a consensus that your relationship does not appear to be as solid as you want it to be. If you do decide to dump her, don't leave the situation wondering if you were too rash in calling it off. You seem to be very fond of her, so maybe give it one last shot. I reckon you should tell how much you like her etc etc. (Put yourself out on a limb). Let her know that you are uncomfortable with the "other dude" and that you would only be interested in the relationship once this "dude" is out of the picture. Ask her then and there to be honest and tell you if she can do this. If she agrees, problem solved for now. You will need to keep an eye on this as she is unlikely to detach from the other dude straight away. This will take time - maybe months. If she pauses or says no, then ask her if she needs a few days to figure things out. THEN - DO NOT MAKE ANY CONTACT WITH HER!!!! Wait for her reply.This way, you will know for sure where you stand. Forget the importance of who breaks up with whom! It's all ego anyway! I mean if you break up, and you're not speaking to each other - who's gonna know (or care)????Hey man - good luck with whole thing!!! Crikey......That answer is way too sensible for many of us folk..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetute Donating Members 4,553 Member For: 20y 11m 1d Gender: Male Location: brisbane Posted 05/04/05 06:15 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 06:15 AM goooone Mate never pay second fiddle to anybody for what ever reason,Life is too short to be worrying about it. When in doubt throw it out I AGREE!!!!!!!!!! There is only one way this situation is ok... and that's if its you and your ex getting it together just joking... I dont think its ok either way, and I wouldnt take it.Hope it all works out for you they way you want it to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xrturb god bless my kids Member 611 Member For: 20y 8m 8d Gender: Male Location: claremont meadows, sydney Posted 05/04/05 06:42 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 06:42 AM save youself the stress and get rid of her you will hurt for a while but there is always a light at the end of the tunnelon the otrher hand and you stay amd haave kids and then you seperate and she will turn in to a real c*nt like I have Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blown BA In Your Face Member 6,195 Member For: 21y 9m 24d Gender: Male Location: Peninsula Posted 05/04/05 06:45 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 06:45 AM She's gone manYour're being played or a suckerDon't ever cop that crapWomen are full of their own self importance so she needs to go and look after this bloke and you need to go ignore her and find someone else.Not worth it...no matter how many good things she does or how much you want her..ask her if the letters F O mean anything to her (al la Smokey and the Bandit Movie)<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Dead right there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xr6 typhoon Good for nothing member Donating Members 619 Member For: 20y 6m 9d Location: Sydney Posted 05/04/05 06:56 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 06:56 AM Just as long as she knows your the only one that flicks her bean and the ex can stick to the ones on his dinner plate!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYOPA Team Blueprint Donating Members 312 Member For: 21y 1m 15d Gender: Male Location: Sydney Posted 05/04/05 07:10 AM Share Posted 05/04/05 07:10 AM This is an easy one...... plonky is 100% right...So you have 2 choices and if your not into 3 somesDUMP HER.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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