TurboDewd FG Falcon fan! Member 1,452 Member For: 21y 5m 27d Gender: Male Location: Canberra Posted 04/04/05 12:37 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 12:37 PM Ok, a bit of background, Ive been seeing M for a bit over 2 mths. Anyway, on our 2nd or 3rd date she said, very indelicately for a woman, that a few mths prior to me she had a one month sexual relationship with a guy. Anyway, occasionally in discussions this guys name pops up, M says she has a soft spot for him coz he had a public breakup with a mutual bunch of friends. In that breakup M tends to defend the guy more than the girl who also apparently miscarried that same guy's kid.Anyway, its his birthday this friday and M thinks shes gonna take him out to dinner or cook for him?! I think that is just plain weird and I dont like it, I think it stinks. Call me old-fashioned, but if you have a 1 month fling and then start up another proper relationship you should kinda limit meet ups with ex's to maybe emails or the odd phone call - not bloody hosting them for dinner.What do u guys think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MRDOHC When in doubt ... Accelerate! Member 440 Member For: 21y 3m 25d Location: Melbourne, Hoppers Xing Posted 04/04/05 12:41 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 12:41 PM I agree with you mate without doubt ...Know how I fixed my situation .... I got engaged ... LOL...No seriously though find out if she still is sweet on this guy .... her head may be telling her to let go but something else may be telling her to go back ...Its a sucky situation I agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Falchoon I see red Member 5,758 Member For: 22y 17d Location: nowhere in particular Posted 04/04/05 12:47 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 12:47 PM If you love something set it free, if it comes back then it's yours to keep, if it doesn't...hunt it down and kill it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C.S.I Member 651 Member For: 20y 17d Gender: Male Location: Gold Coast Posted 04/04/05 12:47 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 12:47 PM Ok, a bit of background, Ive been seeing M for a bit over 2 mths. Anyway, on our 2nd or 3rd date she said, very indelicately for a woman, that a few mths prior to me she had a one month sexual relationship with a guy. Anyway, occasionally in discussions this guys name pops up, M says she has a soft spot for him coz he had a public breakup with a mutual bunch of friends. In that breakup M tends to defend the guy more than the girl who also apparently miscarried that same guy's kid.Anyway, its his birthday this friday and M thinks shes gonna take him out to dinner or cook for him?! I think that is just plain weird and I dont like it, I think it stinks. Call me old-fashioned, but if you have a 1 month fling and then start up another proper relationship you should kinda limit meet ups with ex's to maybe emails or the odd phone call - not bloody hosting them for dinner.What do u guys think?<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Dewd, that's pretty strange. Reckon you should have some alarm bells ringing if she's gunna have him over for dinner etc.Mate, I'd be saying that its either him or me, or else just walk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phantomchic Just because it is, doesn't mean it should be..... Lifetime Members 14,092 Member For: 20y 3m 21d Gender: Female Location: Noosa QLD Posted 04/04/05 01:01 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 01:01 PM Need more details..such as are you just "seeing each other"... or have both decided to be "exclusive"..or simply could be that she is trying to make you jealous.... and test your boundariesend of the day .. If you don't like it Speak up and Say so... its your life and up to you what you allow to happen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damo Donating Members 403 Member For: 21y 1m 15d Gender: Male Location: Sydney Posted 04/04/05 01:04 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 01:04 PM Mate, that sucks. I'd say "sorry, that dinner's not gonna happen"... she was with this guy one month yet he's worthy of a home-cooked meal from her when she's with you now? I don't think so. Maybe she's playing it along the lines of 'if something happens then that's good because I'd like to get back with him' or something.Certainly a sticky sit'n. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damo Donating Members 403 Member For: 21y 1m 15d Gender: Male Location: Sydney Posted 04/04/05 01:05 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 01:05 PM Need more details..such as are you just "seeing each other"... or have both decided to be "exclusive"..or simply could be that she is trying to make you jealous.... and test your boundariesend of the day .. If you don't like it Speak up and Say so... its your life and up to you what you allow to happen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buf-Phoon loitering with intent Lifetime Members 13,318 Member For: 21y 4m 14d Gender: Male Location: Zombie Birdhouse Posted 04/04/05 01:13 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 01:13 PM goooone Mate never pay second fiddle to anybody for what ever reason,Life is too short to be worrying about it. When in doubt throw it out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maximum_velocity Lemming No #5 Member 1,991 Member For: 20y 1m 10d Gender: Male Location: Endeavour Hills, Victoria Posted 04/04/05 01:15 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 01:15 PM I dont like the idea. its just trouble waiting to happen.Put a stop to it and a stop to it now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktford FORD FORD FORD Donating Members 9,390 Member For: 21y 9m 16d Gender: Male Location: Victoria Point In Brissy's eastern side Posted 04/04/05 01:26 PM Share Posted 04/04/05 01:26 PM time for the U word, plenty of fish in the sea, John West ain't got sh*tULTIMATUMScotty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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