If the wastegate is 'blowing open' then that would suggest you're not actually able to build boost.
Possible that the wastegate is not opening at all? Have you got the solenoid plumbed around the correct way?
What size spring have you got in the WG? Does the wastegate move freely? Without the car running, use compressed air and (GENTLY) apply a small amount of pressure and see if the wastegate actually opens. A bike pump is an easy way to do this - just don't be trying it with 50PSI (or +100PSI as most shop air systems run on) or you'll break things.