I know exactly how you both feel it's so bloody frustrating it's not even funny anymore.
From the time we sold and move till now it's been 2.5 years leaving with the mother in-law (f*cking kill me know).
First up was taking our first architect to court because didn't meet our budget, that took 12 months.
New architects and builder so far 1.5 years. Construction start in NOV last year and contract is 6 months and that ends in MAY, not going to happen. I'm hoping to be in around SEPT, fingers crossed.
As the wife keeps reminding me we're almost there and things will get better. My reply most of the time........and so is Christmas.
We all cant wait hang in there guys.