Why a solid firm centre and stock sides now? That is the opposite to what you actually want for longevity with a bit of power. Surprised you haven't had a bolt snap with that setup! Don't think that "pre load" theory is correct either... first I've heard of that!
so you have a 15psi tune with standard injectors and pump? ouch!!! that's not a good thing! valve springs if not done will be an issue at that level too.
could be many things... sounds like you might have a valve spring issue in there as well though... however, what fuel system is this car supposed to have? what injectors? what pump? do you have a boost gauge? what boost is it hitting? what boost was it tuned for?