mate wish you all the best.I went through a hard time this time last year,all I,m going to say is you can only control yourself,what you think is right for you may not be right for them, no one makes you feel what you feel, only you make yourself feel what you feel. What you make of a sitution doesn't really matter ,If you want to help this person listen and let them do as they please,if I was in that postion I would like my friends to stand by me and allow me to do as I please what ever that may be, wrong or right. Just be a friend and stand by them would be the best thing you could do in my eyes .All the best Nick