the guys neighbours said he was a normal person,it really upsets me to see a women destroy this man,its just goes to show how helpless this man felt if his answer's were to kill his kid(kids).Us males have nowhere to turn to for help, family court, docs don't want to know about it.When I was going through my break up, my child was used against me in every way possible (even asking me to change his last name at the age of 6)my boy is 16 now and the only descision I have made in his life is to sign his passport.Denied access to schooling ,sporting events and everything else a father has the rights to.There has never been an avo placed on me,but everything I wanted was always a battle with his mother because it's the game she plays.You wake up one morning and turn your back on him,why because it's the only thing you can do.I was on medication for a while trying to cope with all of this.(I left her for those who want to know).Spent endless nights in bed crying didn't go to work for days weeks.Thought about taking my own life.(never about taking my boys life).I was lucky I had/ have real friends that stuck by me and held me up for years,if you haven't real friends and I mean real friends(take a bullet for you friends) or family around you at this time there is a great chance you will be heading down the same road.Whats the saying a women can make or destroy a man.I honestly feel sorry for this man,what he did was wrong,guys until you are in a position to wear his shoes and I really hope none of you have to go down this road just think what it takes for a person like you and me to wake up and want to take the life of our kids.Really sad story all round no winners in this game.Nick