I know exactly how you feel mate, just beginning to see the light now after breaking up with first serious girlfriend of two years a couple of months back. Nothin but good times and then all of a sudden she wants to be single and go travelling. Less then 3 weeks later after breaking up I find out shes started banging a mate of mine who ive known for the best part of 10 years, who lives not far from me. Safe to say he isnt a mate of mine anymore! Hard for me too coz we both live and grown up in a fairly small town and have the same friends so its hard to avoid bumping in to the pair of mugs nearly every weekend. Like it has been said many times already women can be very nasty pieces of work, for now you just have to get out there and have fun with the boys and try to spear whatever comes your way! I would dearly love to go one of her mates but none of them are as heartless as she is, and its not worth stooping to that level. Lesson learned is that you have to enjoy it while its there, and keep your chin up and move on when its not. Hope all goes well for you mate