BOV, O.K. everyone knows women communicate verbally that's how come the babies learn to speak whilst dad's at work all day Men communicate through actions rather words, and always prefer to enter their "cave first" when arriving home before ever starting a convo with their women You want examples of ACTIONS of a good woman - try this out: He had NO car when he met her she provided the money and resources for him to own no less than SIX cars during their 9 and half years together. He still owes her family the money for the first car Her money was his money - he spent the lot and alot MORE She got him his first piece of real estate she saved her ass off working, going to Uni and provided free board and lodging for him for nearly 4 years, she had to wait for HIS bad credit rating to disappear before she could get the loan for the house. She drove him everywhere for 6 months because of his loss of licence due to his bad driving record getting up before or by 6 a.m. daily (except on Sundays), she never complained HIS sentence became HER sentence She provided a Barrister for his court hearing and the money and and and....got him off lightlycensored: She loved him inspite of all of his failings and he repaid her with buying a Ford XR6 Ute and becoming addicted to the Ute, the internet and cheating and lying, his ego ran wild with the XR6. I guess SHE deserves to have PLENTY TO SAY, and yet she doesn't, she just gets on with life, not criticising him to others, just deeply shocked that a man could be so dishonourable, particularly when he prides himself on "appearing to be an absolute gentleman" to all who meet him....he is easily recognisable...he is the guy always offering a helping hand to anyone and everyone, buying expensive stuff for himself and others. It's all part of him trying to big note himself and appear to be a much better man than he really is. HE was the one ALWAYS TALKING (NOT HER) on his internet and mobile to "other women" while she worked her ass off to pay his bills, SHE DIDN'T HAVE TIME TO TALK. Oh, and he said he was going out to buy a $20,000 Hilux and bought a Ford XR6 Ute instead ....just a bit of a shocking price difference you may note Yeah admittedly he didn't TALK ABOUT IT JUST DID IT